Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Alberta


Alberta was my grandpa’s cousin. She was really the only relative that Grandpa had – or liked for that matter. Alberta was probably a good 10 yrs younger than Grandpa, but because he didn’t have any brothers or sisters, they were very close. Which meant, Alberta was very close to his family – my dad and his siblings. He says that she was by far their favorite cousin! Why you ask? Well, because every time she would come visit them, she would bring bags of toys for them. Every time! Alberta was single until her late 40s/early 50s and never had children of her own, so she would give all that love to the Drexler kids. She was a secretary at a law firm in Philly and when she would come to visit them, she would take a bus. Dad said he and his brother and sisters would sit on the top step of their house, when they knew Alberta was coming, and wait for her to come. Every time a bus would drive by, they’d look to see if it was her bus. Then, as soon as they saw her walking towards them, they’d run up to her and help her carry the bags she brought. Because, as dad says, she would bring grocery bags full of toys for them. Whether it was Christmas time or the middle of May. She would bring them something and they loved her for it!

3 comments:

  1. Alberta used to say that she had secretary "spread." Meaning her hips were widened because of sitting all day.

    Alberta also took me to the shore for a week as a graduation present from 8th grade. My best friend at that time was her neighbor, Linda Speer, and Linda went with us as well. We had a great time.

    And yes, Alberta always brought us great gifts. She even gave me my first hope chest gift. Some really ugly towels which finally gave up the ghost about 10 years ago.

    I recall one time she took me on a shopping trip to Wanamaker's (a great department store in Philly) and bought me a beautiful blouse, a skirt, and a handbag. What a great day that was!

    I loved her, not only for the gifts, but because she was funny, and she put up with a lot from her own father, Uncle Harry, who always called her "girl." He never called her by her name, and she took care of him, cooked for him, basically supported him in his old age, all without thanks from him. What a lady!

    She finally married when she was in her early 50s and died about 15 years later of cancer.

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  2. Yeah, dad said Uncle Harry was a big grump and didn't treat Alberta very nicely. Did he outlive Alberta then? I thought he lived to be in his 100s.

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  3. He was 105 when he died. I have a newspaper article about that in one of my albums.

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